UNHEALTHY SOUL TIES
What is sexual sin
The bible gives us clear and undeniable scriptural instruction as to what is ok sexually and what is not. Lets take a look at the word of GodWe will look at the old testamentWe will look at thenew testamentWe will look at the destructive nature of this door opening sin
First of all lets see what God obviously approves:Genesis 1:27-28 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”Gen 2:24 That is why a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his wife, and they will become one flesh.Pro_18:22 Whoso finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtainsfavourof the LORD.Pro_5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.Definition of husband:a male partner in a marriageDefinition of wife:a female partner in a marriageIn the roughly 6000 years of human history recorded in the bible there is not one example of a same sex marriage.Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
In order to see what is sexually immoral lets take a look at what God forbids.Adultery is defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husbandLets look at the bible:Exo_20:14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.Lev_20:10 And the man thatcommitsadultery with another man's wife, even he thatcommitsadultery with hisneighbour'swife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.Pro_6:32 But whosocommitsadultery with a womanlacksunderstanding: he that doeth itdestroyshis own soul.
Matthew_5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time,youshalt not commit adultery:Luke_18:20You knowthe commandments, Do not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness,Honourthy father and thy mother.There are 33 verses dealing with adulteryFornication is next, Fornication is defined as:consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each otherNow listen to the word of God-Act_15:20 But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood.
1Co_6:13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them.Now the body is not for fornication,but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.1Co_6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that commits fornication sins against his own body.All sin is destructive but sexual sin is against your own body defiling the temple of the Holy Spirit. Do we really want to take the Holy Spirit into an un-holy sexual encounter ?There are 32 verses dealing with fornication
Incest in the Bible refers to sexual relations between certain close kinship relationships which are prohibited . Lets look at the scriptures including other defilementsLev 18:6 "Never have sexual intercourse with anyone related to you by blood. I am the LORD.Lev 18:7 "Never have sexual intercourse with your mother. She is your own mother. Never have sexual intercourse with her.Lev 18:8 Never have sexual intercourse with your stepmother. She is related to you through your father.Lev 18:9 Never have sexual intercourse with your stepsister, whether she is your father's daughter or your mother's daughter. It makes no difference whether or not she was born in your house.
Lev 18:10 Never have sexual intercourse with your granddaughter, whether she is your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter, because she is related to you.Lev 18:11 Never have sexual intercourse with a daughter of your father and his wife. She is your own sister.Lev 18:12 Never have sexual intercourse with your father's sister. She is your paternal aunt.Lev 18:13 Never have sexual intercourse with your mother's sister. She is your maternal aunt.Lev 18:14 Never have sexual intercourse with the wife of your father's brother. She, too, is your aunt.Lev 18:15 Never have sexual intercourse with your daughter-in-law. She is your son's wife. Never have sexual intercourse with her.Lev 18:16 Never have sexual intercourse with your sister-in-law. She is your brother's wife.
Lev 18:17 Never have sexual intercourse with a woman and her daughter or a woman and her granddaughter. They are related. Doing this is perverted.Lev 18:20 Never have sexual intercourse with your neighbor's wife and become unclean with her.Lev 18:21 Never give your children as sacrifices to the godMolechby burning them alive. If you do, you are dishonoring the name of your God. I am the LORD.(This is equivalent to modern day abortion)Lev 18:23 Never have sexual intercourse with any animal and become unclean with it. A woman must never offer herself to an animal for sexual intercourse. It is unnatural.(bestiality)
Homosexuality Lev 18:22 Never have sexual intercourse with a man as with a woman. It is disgusting.Rom 1:25 For they changed the truth of God into a lie, and they worshiped and served the created thing more than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.Rom 1:26 For this cause, God gave them up to dishonorable affections. For even their women changed the natural use into that which is against nature.Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another; males with males working out shamefulness, and receiving in themselves the recompense which was fitting for their error.
Lets take a look at what God say happens to a people that do these thingsLev 18:26 Live by my standards, and obey my rules. Neither you nor any foreigner should ever do any of these disgusting things.Lev 18:27 The people of the land who were there before you did all these disgusting things. As a result, the land has become unclean.Lev 18:28 If you make the land unclean, it will vomit you out as it has vomited out the people who were there before you.Lev 18:29 Whoever does any of these disgusting things must be excluded from the people.
Lev 18:30 So you must follow my instructions. Don't live by the standards of the people who lived there before you. What they do is disgusting. Never become unclean that way. I am the LORD your God."Lets look at today:Rom_6:23For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.Gal 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are clearly revealed, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lustfulness,Gal 5:20 idolatry, sorcery, hatreds,fightings, jealousies, angers, rivalries, divisions, heresies,Gal 5:21envyings, murders,drunkennesses,revelings, and things like these; of which I tell you before, as I also said before, that they who do such thingsshall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Our God is a Holy and loving God he is warning us about the high cost of sin. He wants to cover us with His mercy and grace. The beginning of this is always acknowledging sin as sin without any attempt at justification. Look at one last warning from His word.Rev 21:6 And He said to me, It is done. I am the Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End. To him who thirsts I will give of the fountain of the Water of Life freely.Rev 21:7 He who overcomes will inherit all things, and I will be his God, and he will be My son.Rev 21:8 But the fearful, and the unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, will have their part in the Lake burning with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.
Now we thank the Lord for the glorious cross. We thank the Lord for His Blood. We thank Him for His Spirit and for truth in His word. Jesus came saying repent the kingdom of God is at hand. We praise God that He came to help us be free here as well. In doing that He gave us a key scripture that shows where sexual sin beginsMat_5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.This means that when someone fantasizes about another person sexually they have committed adultery just as if they physically committed the act.What we think and our control of our thought life or lack of control will determine victory or failure
Now we are going to look at one ofsatansmost devastating weapons against even Gods people today.PornagraphyThe Porn Industry – taken from the website www.covenanteyes.comIn 2006, estimated revenues for sex-related entertainment businesses were just under $13 billion in the US. These estimates included video sales and rentals, Internet sales, cable, pay-per-view, phone sex, exotic dance clubs magazines, and novelty stores.Global porn revenues have declined 50% since 2007 due to the amount of free porn online.Internet porn alone is a $3 Billion per year business.69% of pay-per-view Internet content market is pornography.
88% of scenes in porn films contain acts of physical aggression, and 49% of scenes contain verbal aggressionFrom the website Transparent MinistriesSex is the #1 thing people search for on the Internet• There are over 420 million Pornographic Internet pages• 12 to 17 year olds are the largest consumers of Internet pornography• 42.7% of Internet users view pornography• The pornography industry is larger than the revenues of the top technology companies combined: Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo!, Apple, Netflix and EarthLink• 70% of women keep their cyber activities secret• Women, more than men, are likely to act out their behaviors in real life, such as having multiple partners, casual sex, or affairs.
• 68 million porn search engine requests dailyNow lets take a look at the statistics in the church.• 7 of 10 lay leaders in the church admitted to visiting adult Web sites at least once a week• 5 out of 10 pastors said they did the same.• 60% of all Christian men and 30% of all Christian women are addicted to pornography.• 60% of the women who answered the survey admitted to having significant struggles with lust;• 40% admitted to being involved in sexual sin in the past year; and 20% of the church-going female participants struggle with looking at pornography on an ongoing basis.
It’s more than statisticsIt’s people.It’s husbands, fathers, mothers, wives.It’s children, sons, daughters.It’s families, friends, co-workers.It’s churches, ministries, the body of Christ.Statistics only tell part of the story.Statistics represent people you know.People struggling with sexual addiction.All Sexual sin brings death which is the wages of sin
Death comes in various forms all the way up to the actual loss of life.Look at the wages of sinDeath to : Peace with God, Peace with self, death to health, death to marriages, death to relationships, death to sanity, death to ministriesetcetcSexual sin is an open door that leads to a state of being called unholy soul ties.
What a soul tie isThe Bible speaks of what can be called soul ties. In the Bible, it doesn't use the word soul tie, but it speaks of them when it talks about souls being knit together, becoming one flesh, etc. A soul tie can serve many functions, but in it's simplest form, it ties two souls together in the spiritual realm. Soul ties between married couples draw them together likemagnets,cleavingto one another as they should.
Whilesoul ties between fornicators can draw a beaten and abused woman to the man which in the natural realm she wouldrun from, but instead sheruns backtohim over and over thoughhe doesn't love her, and treats her like dirt. In the demonic world, unholy soul ties can serve as bridges between two people to pass demonic garbage through.People can be happily married and really love their spouse but have ongoing fantasies ,including visual flashbacks of a former lover or ex spouse.Soul-ties with an abuser can hinder Godly relations with a spouse, perverting what is holy .
Some people get truly saved in prison and then get released and are drawn right back to the people that they worked unrighteousness with and fail again.The same thing happens in drug useetcetc.A couple of scriptures to consider:Pro 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and you shall not go up with a man of fury,Pro 22:25 lest you learn his ways and get a snare to your soul.1Co 15:33 Do not be so deceived and misled! Evil companionships (communion, associations) corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and character.
Soul ties are formed when two or more persons become bonded together. Some soul ties are good, and others are evil; some are holy, and some are ungodly. Our Holy God has ordained and sanctioned the soul ties of bonding between husbands and wives, children and parents, friends with friends and Christians with one another as members of the Body of Christ. Both good and bad soul ties are formed from both sexual engagement and human relations. When life is live according to God’s instruction good ties are formed. Outside of Gods ways bad ties are formed.
Sexual relations: Godly soul ties are formed when a couple are married (Ephesians 5:31, "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh."), and the Godly soul tie between a husband and the wife that God intended him to have is unbreakable by man (Mark 10:7-9). However, when a person has ungodly sexual relations with another person, an ungodly soul tie is then formed (1 Corinthians 6:16, "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two,saithhe, shall be one flesh."). This soul tie fragments the soul, and is destructive. People who have many past relationships find it very difficult to 'bond' or be joined to anybody, because their soul is fragmented.
Close relationships: King David and Jonathan had a good soul tie as a result of a good friendship (1 Samuel 18:1, "And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul."), but bad soul ties can form from bad relationships as well. Idolizing somebody can cause a bad soul tie.Good relationships create good ties. Dysfunctional relationships create unholy ties. This could include verbal abuse,control.manipulation,physical abuse, parents interfering with grown children's lives (the apron strings need cutting) religious control from a ministry, damaging words. Unholy ties are formed regardless of which side of thedysfuctionyou are on.
Ungodly soul ties are formed with unholy sexual acts which are not by choice as well such a molestation and rape. Consider the story about Dinah a daughter of Jacob. She was raped by the Prince ofShechem. She did not ask for this abuse but listen as the scripture describes what happened.Gen 34:1 And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which she bare unto Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land.Gen 34:2 And whenShechemthe son ofHamortheHivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.Gen 34:3And his soul clave unto Dinahthe daughter of Jacob, and he loved the damsel, andspakekindly unto the damsel.
You can create a soul tie with a rock group by becoming obsessed with their music. Which explains the strong pull towards certain music that seems almost irresistible.Actors,actresses,authors and anyone else you have engaged in ungodly act with. This include who you used drugs with, lied to others withetc. The people you fantasized about with pornography or you imagination. Remember Jesus said if you do it in your heart it is the same as physical. Any one you did anythingocculticwith likequijiboard,palmreadersetc
How to break a soul tie1. If any sins were committed to cause this soul tie, repent of them! Forgive and break Judgement against the others involved.2. If gifts were given to you by the other person in connection with the sin or unholy relationship, such as rings, flowers, cards,clothing,etc. I would get rid of them! Such things symbolize the ungodly relationship, and can hold a soul tie in place.
I would still encourage you to get rid of anything that symbolizes the ungodly practices in the relationship though, such as if a guy gives a girl a bra and panties with his initials on them during fornication. I wouldn't encourage you to hang on to such things that symbolize sin or that are wrong to give each other before marriage. Things such as flowers and love letters given during an adultery should be destroyed.
Dear Yahweh my Father ,Thank You for loving me so much You sent Your Only Begotten Son, Jesus to die on the cross for me and forgive me of all my sins. This day, LORD, I want to clean up the loose ends. I want to close all the gates. I want to sever all the soul ties. Lord, help me remember every event and every person in order to complete this work. In Jesus Name I ask. Amen.
Father, I confess that I have had illicit sex with people. I forgive those that I sinned with and those that sinned against me, I repent of that sin for me and my ancestors and I turn from it. Please forgive me. Then, LORD, I ask You to sever the unholy soul tie between them and me. I cancel all ground gained in my members because of my unrighteous behavior. I cancel all assignments against me because of my sinful acts. I call back the authority over my body and declare it to be properly returned. Now, LORD, close the gate I opened through sin and open the gate to your blessing.
Enable me to maintain a pure heart, a clean spirit and chaste body, In Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.As the Lord shows you break unholy ties. These can include:People who have controlled you or that you have controlled.Spouse, father ,mother,siblings,andfriends. (good things remain ,anything not of God we want gone)Unwanted and forced sexual encounters.People you partnered in other sin with.
People who have broken your flesh.(doctors ,nurses,bloodbrothers, tattoo artist and needle sharing etc. (not all is well in the medical field).I now command the spirits to leave . Now breath deeply (without hyperventilating)Sometimes all that comes is events and places . Names not vital .Pray asfollows,repentingfor what you did and forgiving them for sinning against you:
I send __________ soul back to __________in the name of Jesus. (If person is dead send to where it belongs )In the name of Jesus I call my soul back to me covered in the blood of Jesus.I exchange their image for the image of Jesus ChristI break the demonic bridges between me and___________(name person OR event if names not known)
(After breaking ties command spirits from the attached list to leave.)You may or may not have participated in some that are listed but you do not know what your ancestors have done so we cover all the ground listed anyway. Will anything not from God to leave. Take deep breaths through your mouth without hyperventilating. If you need to cough, sneeze burp or yawn do not stop it. You may not do anything but breathe but you will feel bondage leave.
I command any spirit that transferred to Gods children to leave in Jesus name Perversion, lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, unclean ,guilt ,shame , Fornication, adultery, sodomy,Rape,incestandmolestation,bestiality,homosexuality,incubus,succubusIdolatry,whoredoms,fear,anger,hatred,murder. resentment. Bitterness andungorgiveness. Unholy judgementWitchcraft,sorcery,control andseduction,jezebel,ahab.Rebellion,rejection,selfhatred and negotiation (trying to justify sin )
Ask the Lord to fill them with His spirit.The Spirit of the Lord, The Spirit of the Fear of The Lord, The Spirit of Wisdom, The Spirit of Counsel, The Spirit of Knowledge, The Spirit of Might and the Spirit of UnderstandingLater as you walk out your life and the Lord shows you something just repent ,break ties and expel the enemy in Jesus name.Just be free.